In A Nutshell
What do I want--a truly honest relationship. I'm at the point in my life where I've checked off all the boxes that I had hoped to: buy a house, get married, have kids and raise them. I have no biological clock dictating that I must find a mate NOW and no burning desire to be married again. There is no agenda except to find someone who would enjoy being with me and I with him. Although marriage and babies are not the objectives here, meeting new people and wondering if they like you, will they call and ask you out again, do they think of you as a friend or more than that....it is all still exhausting. So in the end, I would like to find The One: The One who doesn't play games or make me guess where I stand with him; The One who is a gentleman, but with a distinct mischievous and playful side; The One who can make me laugh longer and harder than anyone else; The One who truly enjoys being with me, but does not smother me or become possessive; The One who understands the difference between shaking things up vs drama and clearly prefers the former to the latter; The One who will admire me for my independence yet stand up for me when someone wrongs me; The One who doesn't mind that I speak my mind, even if we disagree as long as we do
I'd Just Like to Add
I have been on my own for quite a while, quite by choice. I found life much easier by myself rather than settling for someone who isn't aligned with me politically (or spiritually). While I don't want to spend the rest of my life alone, I am willing to wait until the right person comes along. If you read everything up above, you probably gleaned the fact that I have met/been involved with some people who in all honesty I settled for. I have no desire to go down that road again. I am truly a positive person (despite what the above paragraph may make me seem to be), and I suppose I am a romantic to think I could find someone meeting the above description. I am going to give it go, though, and see if the right one for me is out there. That being said, I should point out that I have no desire to relocate. If you are not from the are I live go ahead and contact me if you REALLY think we are a match, but know that I would not be the one relocating. Again, I know that is limiting my chances, but on this I cannot compromise. My kids are here, my business is here, so I will stay here. Thanks for giving my profile a read through. I hope you (and I! LOL) find what you are looking for in a partner.
Q. Do you enjoy cooking?
A. I have to cook
Q. How patient do you consider yourself?
A. Extremely patient
Q. Are you romantic?
A. Quite romantic
Q. How punctual are you typically?
A. Always early
Q. Do you enjoy going to the movies?
A. Love it
Q. How much do you enjoy going to live theatre?
A. Love it
Q. How much do you like reading?
A. I love it
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